Facilitate a Local Small Group

Share the experience, accelerate the joy!

Help couples experience more joy in their marriage!

People get married because they believe they will experience more joy with the person they love. However, it does not take long to discover joy is an elusive thing. Most of us have no idea what causes joy or how to revive it when it begins to fade…until now!

Whether you gather together with some friends in the community or meet in your home, or you lead a group of couples in your church through this resource, we can assure you the result will be happy, happy marriages!







What You'll Get

For $99, you’ll get a one-year license giving you access to everything you need to lead a small group in your home, church, or community:

  1. Six 30-minute Videos with the Authors of “The 4 Habits”
  2. Downloadable Facilitator’s Guide​ (this has everything you need to lead a successful group!).

1. Top Notch Video Curriculum​​

Each week you’ll hear Dr. Marcus Warner teach on that week’s topic based on cutting-edge brain science and insights from decades of ministry experience.

Next you’ll get to sit in on a discussion between Marcus and Brenda Warner, together with Chris and Jen Coursey, as they share candidly from their own marriages. You’ll also get to watch the Courseys explain and model this week’s relational skills exercise that will help shrink the joy gap in your marriage!

2. Couples Gather Weekly with Other Couples

Yes, you can apply these 4 habits and begin to experience joy in your marriage. However, it is a proven fact that lasting change takes place best in community. Gathering with other couples weekly provides you the opportunity to share the experience and accelerate the joy as you form these habits alongside one another.

The weekly video prepares the way for group discussion and is modeled as the co-authors and their wives discuss the teaching and the habits from their own experience.

3. Couples Practice the Habits Together​

Practice may not make you perfect but it will shrink the joy gap in your marriage! Exercises are introduced throughout the book and during the 6-weekly gatherings. Couples will practice some exercises in the group and during the week to cultivate more joy.

The weekly video introduces exercises that will build the habit into the marriage and then co-author Chris Coursey and his wife, Jen, demonstrate the exercise. This prepares couples to implement the exercise with clarity and ease.

Sample Video

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4. Couples Experience More and More Joy!​

This is the outcome people expected when they married the person they love. Armed with the knowledge of what causes joy and the brain science behind it, coupled with the development of these 4 habits, the outcome will exceed their expectations!

You will see it in the video demonstration: even the co-authors and their wives are experiencing more joy!

Take the Lead and Build Joy-Filled Marriages

It starts with you. Someone has to take the lead to rally a group of couples, get the books in their hands, and subscribe to this small group video-based resource. You can be the group facilitator and we will guide you throughout the 6 weeks with insights, weekly video training just for you, and answers to your questions through our customer support team.

Purchase the subscription and gain access to all the resources right away! The subscription is good for one-year and renewable at a discounted price for subsequent years. 

Churches will find this resource to be a gold mine for building happy, healthy marriages! 


Purchase the small group resource!


Let’s start decreasing the joy gap in marriages.

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